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(a) if you really can not drink, ya don't open mouth first, holding bowl clip vegetables eating to
(two) if convinced her to drink, don't put the ink converse Uomo, the next is the rules
rule one: the wine on the table while "feeling, a stuffy; shallow feelings, lick" but drinking can never put the phrase.
rule two: keeping a low profile, accumulate steadily, not a big fatness is filling.
rule three: Leadership mutual drink to his turn to.
rule four: can people worship one, will never be alone and people, unless you are leading cravatta Armani.
rule five: oneself and others, if not drinking, drinking themselves much depending on the circumstances, such as each other each other to drink alcohol, attitude, must not drink less than the other, want to know is their respect for people.
rule six: oneself and others, if the glasses, a sentence, I drink, you, the big belly.
rule seven: their inferior position, remember to give leadership add wine, not blind to the leadership and wine occhiali da sole uomo, is to generation, but also in the leadership really want to find someone, pretend to because want to drink not to give leadership and drink wine.Such as leading a very big attack by innuendo, through the preparation and lead a man stopped.
rule eight: end up glass (beer), the right hand choke cup, left hand pad the bottom of the cup, remember their cup is always lower than the others.If he is the leader, be tactful, don't put too low, otherwise how to let the person?
rule nine: if there are no special character is present, touch the best wine in clockwise order, don't favour one more than another.
rule ten: toast, toast, to say the words, otherwise, why should my TMD drink your wine?
eleven rules: don't talk business on the desktop, a good drink, business is about, you heart understand, otherwise people will not open the drink with you.
twelve rules: don't loaded askew, saying the wrong thing, do the wrong things, not to defend, the determination Fajiu is the hard truth.
rule thirteen: if, is pure if, meet the situation of not enough wine, wine bottle in the middle of the table, let a person get, don't be silly not to waste one wine, or the people behind no wine?
rule fourteen: finally, there must be a stuffy wine, so, don't let his empty glass.Run back to
rule Fifteen: pay attention to drink do not slip of the tongue, don't talk, don't forget yourself, don't spit flying, chopsticks thrown, not finger pointing, soup bubbling sound, don't fart hiccups, can not stop to go to the toilet, no one stopping you.
sixteen rules: don't put the "I can't drink" say it (if you have one), lest others scold you hypocritical, believe it or not, people can drink really can see.
rule seventeen: leading with your drink, is to give you face, no matter how much you drank how leadership, their first king to do, remember ah, hands, the cup to low.
rule Eighteen: peanuts to drink people, is a good stuff.Keep a clear head, ask people whether they feel hot drink is unavoidable, a cup of yogurt, a cup of hot water, a hot towel is you to show the utmost solicitude.
if you can't drink
1, do not take the initiative to implement the strategy, the best defence is offence.;
2, table two cup, a cup of wine, a cup of water, take a small drink wine, ground water, into the wine on the table and basic have 8 points drunk, can with water on behalf of the wine, the initiative;
3, cheers, don't swallow it, looking for opportunities to use your napkin to wipe the mouth, spit napkin;
4, after some fat box-office eat first starchy food bottom class, drinking is not easy drunk;
5, grasp the rhythm, don't drink too much;
6, do not drink a few wine hunzhe, particularly easy drunk;
7, leadership clip vegetables, do not turn the table in the middle of the disk, the leadership clip vegetables you dial is big on the wine table;
8, get six points drunk, you before the vinegar to drink the vinegar dish, let attendant added;
9, every time a toast, filled, and then pretend not to take before the drink wine stability, as far as throwing out some, so you can drink less in many;
10, drink the front put half a cup of tea, drink not to swallow, quickly picked up the cup, drink Kung Fu spit into the cup, full of spit water change on the line, pipe!
1, all the joy and fun, don't whisper
most guests more functions, it should try to talk about most of the people can participate in the topic, most people agree.Because of personal interests, knowledge is different, so the topic try not too partial, avoid stand upon one's pantofles, all over the country, the world is limitless, appear from phenomenon, and ignore all.Especially as far as possible not to ear and whispers, give people a sense of mystery, often have a "just the two of you good" jealousy, effects of alcohol effect.
2, aim at the
, grasp the overall situation;
most sprinkled feast there is a topic, also is the purpose of drinking Perruques Longues.At first you should look at his face, to distinguish between primary and secondary, not simply in order to drink and drink, and lose friends good opportunity, but do not let some curry favour by claptrap drinker upset host.
3, humorous language properly,
on the table can show one's talent, knowledge, culture and communication style, sometimes a witty and humorous language, the guests will leave a deep impression, make the person in a crush on you.So, should know when to say what, language proper, humor is the key.
4, drink moderately, do not importune
in the wine on the table often encounter the phenomenon, some people always like wine field when the battlefield, try various devices to urge others to drink a few cups, think not to drink is not really.
"hero" with the wine, the drinker can also, little would try, sometimes too much to drink, old friends will be completely destroyed.
5, toast and orderly, with primary and secondary
toast is a door knowledge.General toast should be based on age, seniority, and the identity of the sequence, we must fully consider the good order of toast toast, clear primary and secondary.Even with unfamiliar people drink together, also want to inquire about the identity or is aware of how others address, it always several, avoid the embarrassed or hurt the feelings of the situation.
propose a toast must grasp a sequence.A guest at the table, he should be more respectful to nature, but be careful, if the presence of higher status or older people, it should not only be reverent and respectful to help you busy, also want to the venerable elder toast, or it will make everyone embarrassed.
6, read, understand the hearts of
wants to get everyone's praise in the wine on the table, we must learn to read.Because communication with others, to understand the hearts of men, both ways, can play the role of wine on the table.
, 7, was shot in Taishan gradually,
banquet feast to the clearance, the correct valuation of their own strength, not too actuation, try to keep some wine and talking to the sense of propriety, not let others look down on yourself and don't show themselves, select the appropriate opportunity, gradually radiation own ability, to take Taishan, not for others to produce "this ability" the idea, so that we can't underestimate your strength.
attention to detail;
1 - seat
in general, the seating is "still left to respect the East", "facing the door to respect".If the table, then the door is subjective, objective and subjective right position, the distance from the subject, as close to the subject and location more respect, the same distance from the left statue on the right.If is the table for eight, if has to the front door seat, then the door side is the hosts and visitors.If not to the front door, the east side to side right mat is chief.
if the feast, arrangement between the table and the table about the chief top center, left in 2, 4, 6 seats, the right for the 3, 5, 7 seats, according to the subjective identity, status, intimacy sit.
if you are the master, you should arrive early, then wait on the position of the door, and the guests seat.If you are invited, you should follow the host safety seat.
in general, if your boss to attend it, you should be the boss will lead to the main seat, please customers the highest sat on the main seat left position.Unless the conference object leadership level is very high.
2 - order
if time allows, you should wait for most of the guests here, the menu for guests circulated, and ask them to order.Of course, as the official banquets camicie ralph lauren, are you worried about budget problems, therefore, to control the budget, you the most important thing is to do more homework before meals, choose the appropriate grade treat site is more important, so guests can also greatly appreciate your budget.And in general, if you pay the bill, guests are not too embarrassed to order, will let you.If your boss is on the banquet, don't respect for him, or that he entertainment experience, eat much booze, and let him / her to order, unless he / she asks.Otherwise, he will feel shameful.
if you are the party, you should know, you shouldn't be in order too active, but to allow owners to order.If the other party hospitality requirements, you can point a not too expensive, and not everyone diet food.Remember to consult the opinion about the table, in particular to ask "have not eat what is?"Or "more like what to eat?"Let everybody feels to take care.A la carte, can consult "I ordered the food, do not know whether to close several taste", "would you like something else.".
the meal must pay attention to decorum.The foreign guests don't repeatedly advised dish, can be introduced to each other the characteristics of Chinese food, not eaten by him.Some people like to persuade food, and even for the other dishes.Foreigners don't have this habit, if you repeatedly polite, chances are people will resent: "said don't eat, you are not forced me to do?" and so on, attend a dinner guests, also don't expect owners repeatedly give you food.If you wait for someone else to give yourself Bucai, then had to Russian belly.
after the guests sitting converse uomo, don't immediately start feeding.But should be greeted by master, master to indicate the start, guests can begin; guests can't grab before the master.Clip vegetables to civilization, should dishes to their front, chopsticks, don't rob in front of their neighbour, a clip vegetables also shoulds not be too much.Chew slowly, this is not only conducive to digestion, but also at the dinner table etiquette requirements.No big mouth, eat like wolves and tigers, this will give the impression left greed.Don't be fussy, don't just stick to what they like to eat the vegetable, or rushed like dishes heaped on his plate.Dining action should be gentle, clip don't encounter Leroy neighbour, don't put dishes to the table, and don't open your soup.Don't make unnecessary noise, such as when you drink soup "grunt", eating mouth "Baba" sound, this is rude performance.Don't eat, side and chat.The mouth of the bones and the bones do not spit on the table, use napkins and mouth, chopsticks and put them in a dish.Out on the table menu, don't eat.Don't play with chopsticks during a meal, or directly to others with chopsticks.Don't dig out of his mouth with his hand.Use a toothpick, application of hand or napkin mask.Don't make any noise.
after the meal, you can wipe your mouth with the napkin, napkin or waiter brought a small towel, but not wipe the neck or chest; postprandial don't add control to burp or belching; owners haven't indicated at the end, the guest cannot get leave.
1, host and guest.
2, companion to the guest of honor.
3, the guest of honor at.
4, company and mutual respect.
remember: guest can never dominate and toast, that is very impolite, also is very not respect master.
5 -- tea
said here that the tea knowledge is not only suitable for the customers to the company to visit, also suitable for business dining table.
first, tea to clean.The guests entered the house, let sit, reserve tea.Tea before, must wash, especially for a long time without the use of tea, is coated with dust, dirt, more careful with water wash again.Before tea, tea is best to use boiling water scald the teapot, teacup.In this way, not only to pay attention to health, and is refined and courteous.If no matter tea clean, just pour out the tea, it is not polite.The somebody else see teapot, teacup smutty marks on the nausea, how would you drink your tea? General now companies are disposable cup, the tea before you pay attention to disposable cups on the cup holder, so as to avoid hot water and heat, let a guest temporarily unable to a cup of tea.
second, tea moderation.Say first tea, general appropriate to.Tea is not too much, not too little.Excessive tea, tea flavor too strong; tea is too little, rushed out of tea nothing tastes.If the guest take the initiative to introduce their own likes to drink tea or tea habit, then according to the guest's mouth the tea brewed.Say pour tea, either a large or a small, can not pour too full, too full to overflow, turn the tables, stools, floor wet.Accidentally, will burn yourself or guest's hands, so they are very embarrassed.Of course, also shoulds not be too little.If the tea only cover the cup bottom served to guests, can make the person feels is affectation, not single-hearted.
again, tea to wisely.According to Chinese people's traditional habits, as long as his hands not crippled, with both hands is the tea to the guest.But now, some young people don't know the rules, the tea with one hand to the guest settles.Hands tea also has to be careful, for cup ear cup, usually catch ear cup with a hand, another hand to hold the bottom of the cup, the tea to guests.No ear cup after cup filled with general hot tea, his hands close to the poor, some comrades regardless of the consequence, pinch the edge of the cup to the guests to send with the fingers.Although this kind of tea and method can prevent the scald accident, but very unsightly, also not enough health.Please imagine, let a guest mouth lick the master finger mark, feel better?
tea.If the boss and customer cup need tea, you want to do.You can sketch service was born tea, or let the waiter teapot on the table, yourself by you to add is better, this is don't know what to say when the best disguise measures.Of course, the tea to give the boss and customer tea, and finally to give oneself add.
6 - and
general reception and tea time is very long, about two hours are in.Perhaps around a few times, know some people, you soon want to leave.At this time, midway some skills, you can't understand.
common a banquet was warm, because someone wants to leave, they break up in an uproar caused by the results, the organisers Tiaojiao nasty really.To avoid such a killjoy consequences, when you leave, don't and everybody talk circles one one farewell, as long as quietly and side two or three people say hello, and left then.
leave the reception site, must to invite you to master, sorry, can not be swiftly disappeared.
and the master was greeting, should immediately leave, don't pull a master in the gate big talk endlessly.Because each day to do a lot of things, the scene also have many guests waiting for him (her) to say hello, you represent the owner too much time, he (she) will cause a faux pas in front of other guests.
some people to take part in the party, tea party, when midway to leave, one one asked her to know everyone want to go.The results have been bustling scene, she was encouraged that, once they leave in advance.This naochang thing, the most difficult is the host of understanding, a person with good manners, don't make this clock error.
the preparation before drinking
wine can hurt liver, it is known, in order to reduce the damage of alcohol on the stomach and liver, reduce the occurrence of fatty liver.Wine preparations of very important, this is the key factor to ensure you can do in the wine on the table.In to dinner before, at home to eat, let's have something mat.The specific eat what is good?General eat high protein is better, for example, eat two eggs, milk, soy milk, because these high protein food in the stomach and alcohol can be combined, reaction, reduce the absorption of alcohol.In addition, biscuits, cakes can also, let the stomach a little things, because fasting drinking alcohol, easily absorbed in the stomach, resulting in easy drunk.Pay attention to, avoid using salted fish, sausage, bacon drinks, because such Prince smoked food contains a lot of pigment and nitrosamines, react with alcohol, not only hurt the liver, but also damage the oral and esophageal mucosa, and even induce cancer.
in addition, for those who often drink or often Peijiu, can try a method of recording some books on the.Such as the Qing Dynasty in the "anonymous tripod set" set: "to be not drunk alcohol, taking borax end little drink soup, Ge, Ge pill effect later"."Qian Jin Fang": "July 7th day stone calamus, at the end of service, drinking is not drunk."
"wine over three circulation, food five flavor", this is the ancient stay the wine field proverb, it also shows that on the other hand, the importance of eating.In the drink before, try to eat a la carte, then drink, its principle and as said earlier.Forbidden drink on an empty stomach, not only easy drunk, and easy to hurt a stomach.
drink hangover measures
after drinking, dizziness, headache, vomiting, and even unconscious, drunk to undergo great pain, this time to sober up, bring to reduce drunken pain, and prevent a possible more damage.Teach you the recipe for sobering method, here is simple, drinkers can according to their own situation, choose the method that suits oneself, might as well try.
* ☆ drink white radish juice: health white radish juice, wash, slightly heated, one cup each time, 10 minutes at a time, three times a solution to wine.
* ☆ eat cabbage heart: remove the cabbage heart shred, a lack of two, plus a small amount of sugar and vinegar mix pickled for three five minutes under the clothing, it quickly hangover.
* ☆ served celery juice: fresh celery juice wash chopped, drunk as a tea, continuous drink three times (every 5 minutes), the effects of drunken headache dizziness blush.
* ☆ drink fresh orange peel and water: 2 two fresh orange peel and 1 kg of water to a boil, then add a small amount of salt after shaking when tea drink, a cup at a time, 5 minutes before drinking, three times effective.
* ☆ drink green bean juice: green beans 2 two, boil with water after drinking, even the soup with beans. Such as mung bean mashed with boiling water with a hangover effect.
in addition to reducing drunk headache, dizziness, nausea and other symptoms?The following are several food, this is the researchers the United States National headache research foundation is found, you may wish to make a reference:
* ☆ honey drink of water governance headache: honey contains a special kind of fructose, can promote the decomposition of alcohol absorption, reduce the headache symptoms, particularly red wine headaches.In addition, honey and hypnotic effect, can make people fall asleep quickly, the very next day after getting up is not a headache.
* ☆ tomato juice drink rule dizziness: tomato juice is rich in special fructose, can help promote the decomposition of alcohol, one drink 300 milliliter above, can make drunk giddy feeling gradually disappear.If drinking before adding a small amount of salt, but also help stabilize mood.
* ☆ fresh grape governance drunken nausea, nausea: if the alcohol before eating, can effectively prevent drunkenness.
* ☆ watermelon juice drink governance fever: watermelon can heat Quhuo, can speed up the alcohol from the urine discharge.
* ☆ grapefruit eliminate mouth alcohol: grapefruit meat dipped in sugar to eat, have very great help to eliminate drunk wine spirit in the mouth cavity.
* ☆ celery juice drink governance gastrointestinal discomfort, facial redness: This is because celery is rich in B vitamins, can decompose alcohol.
yogurt drink irritability. ☆ treatment: yogurt can protect the gastric mucosa, defer alcohol absorption, including calcium rich, especially effective in easing the drink irritability.
★ palpitation, chest tightness or banana drink rule: drink and eat 1 to 3 bananas, can increase blood glucose levels, reduce the proportion of alcohol in the blood, achieve the wine.At the same time, it can alleviate the symptoms of palpitation, chest depressed to eliminate.
* ☆ olive governance drink anorexia: olive sober since ancient times, Qingwei fever, loss of appetite and promote the "good medicine", can direct human consumption, but also add rock sugar stew served.
thought that tea can be hangover, but I do not know such by "delay" years --
drink tea bogey
Li Shizhen in the "compendium of Materia Medica" records: drink tea kidney injury, waist and leg weight, bladder Leng Tong, and suffering from edema.Modern medical research also points out, the tea will stimulate gastric acid secretion, make the alcohol more easily damage to the gastric mucosa; at the same time, the tea and alcohol can cause the heart to beat faster, more heavy heart burden.
on the market at present there are many hangover drugs, as the king of drink, "global" capsule, hostess division "Jiejiu tea, another American import ZEO and so on, so the drug really effective? In the final analysis, the so-called DIPE the drug but are through the following two ways to achieve the purpose of decanter: one is what can be quickly decomposition, make the alcohol lost efficacy, or blocking alcohol in gastrointestinal absorption, reduce the amount of alcohol into the blood, so it also can achieve the purpose of decanter.However, no matter what the hangover drugs, no matter how the effect of magic, is a certain side effects, can not eat, especially for those who often Peijiu or often have to entertain people, is even more so.Generally do not eat, because even if you take medicine, alcohol or into the body, causing damage to the liver, the best is not to drink, must want to drink, also using another method to sober.
drunk themselves often do not know their own behavior, not to take care of yourself, then as a relative or friend must take good care of, should pay attention to several aspects:
1 absent such as walking instability, should be careful not to let it fall, prevent traumatic injury, or bump head and other important parts.
2 pay attention to keep warm, because the body drunk down, this time easily catch cold catch cold.Let the drunk who head to one side, to prevent the vomiting, if have vomiting, to clear the vomit in the oral cavity, prevent into the trachea, lead to suffocation or pulmonary infection.
3 drunk more serious, and cannot take up the goods, should make it will vomit stomach content, you can use your fingers, cotton stick is inserted into the throat to vomiting.When necessary, can also be gastric lavage with warm water or 2% sodium bicarbonate solution.The more serious then hurriedly call 120 or send to hospital for emergency treatment.